|Don't deny father's
right to see child
May 11, 2007
I'd like to say my brother has a daughter by a women who could fit this
article to a "T". She has done some horrible things to my brother while he was
off defending this country. He went into the military to make a better life for
his daughter. The mother has done nothing but make his life worse. While he was
in she moved so much and never told him where they were. But trust me C.C.C.S.
made sure she got the check every month even when he had no clue if she
(daughter) was getting it. We the rest of the family are afraid if we tried to
get her the mother would scream child abuse or molestation. This mother is very
twisted in her thinking and she has already given up one child to the father,
her last child she says belongs to my brother but it was prove to be someone
else’s. Tell me what kind of system lets a mother keep her kids when all this
has been brought up in court and she gets to keep them. This is why we have
psychopaths among us.
Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 8:29 am
Finally you ended your post with what I was trying to get across in the first
place. Your letter only faults a woman but I was trying to say that not all
women are like that. And not all men are like my ex. As for airing my dirty
laundry- do you know who I am? do you know my children's names? do you know my
ex's name? That was my point. These blogs are anonymous unlike a letter which
you sign your name. And I am smart enough to know that the TF requires a name
and address to publish an open forum - as do all newspapers. I just felt like
you were only attacking women and portraying them to all be heartless and mean
spirited. I know plenty of men and plenty of women who are very childish about
visitation and such but I also know just as many who are not.
Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 8:08 pm
reply to opinionated: 1st thing is you have to sign your name when you write an open forum letter, and you see I knew that when I wrote the letter 2nd thing is you said air dirty laundry, am I mistaken or didn't you just do that in your post.
- I'm pretty sure I did not say ALL WOMEN, and no it's not a boyfriend or
ex-husband. I have been married 24 yrs and have 2 grown children. I am talking
about family and friends who have been burned by SOME WOMEN. just because your
marriage didn't work out doesn't make you a bad father or mother, but if you
hold the children over the other ones head then yes, it does make for bad
parenting. I believe I said in the article no support is owed, and that the
fathers actually go to get their children but are denied access to see them
because the mothers have a grudge against the father. It doesn't sound like a
good thing your in. It's too bad the father of your children do that to them,
but not all fathers are like that. If you have son's I hope a woman doesn't do
that to them, that is my wish too. I know how it must feel for you to see your
children hurt, and that is what I was trying to convey. The children hurt as
much as the parent who wants to parent, not fly by night fathers, who only want
to get the kids when they want, and don't feel obligated to support the
children, if you made them then you pay for them. I am talking about fathers and
mothers who are not allowed to see their children because of hatefulness. The
children are the real victims in a custody case with a non participating member/
this goes for everyone quit putting the kids in the middle!!!!!!!
Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 9:55 pm
opinionated - I don't believe you got out of this article what I did. it
sounds like you are being burned, but you see not all fathers are like the one
you describe as the father of your children. You talked about airing dirty
laundry, didn't you just do that by describing the father of your children. I
agree w/ her, read the last part, where it says a father just wants to be a
father. I have seen so many men walked on by women because of the control they
have over children, but what does it say to the children, that it's okay to
belittle a father who just wants to see his own children because she has a
personal problem w/ the ex husband, how wrong is it > I understand if it's the
way you describe your childrens father, but some men believe it or not , really
want to be a part of their childrens lives but are kept from doing it for no
other reason then just plan meanness and to hurt a man. Just because you split
up don't mean your allowed to control all things around you in order to make the
man pay, you have children, don't talk about the father like a piece of dirt.
Remember you both created these children supposedly out of love, but then it
turns to hate, don't make the children meanspirited too!
Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 9:28 pm
I don't condone things mentioned in the article--but why be offended by the
truth. It is not the mans fault that women know they can have a free ride for 18
The truth is the system is not fair-will never be fair as long as all decisions are going to be made one-sided. The legal system doesn't care because the man is 99.9% at fault all the time--and it doesn't count because a woman is pregnant with a child other than her husbands.
what do we have --no fault divorce? But women are not the only one to play the game! Maybe people shouldn't be allowed to marry until they're 21!!!!
So if everyone is so worried about the children wwhy not bring them up in the
truth instead of the lies taught by the system we live under!!!
Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 4:34 pm
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