Judge removes children from mother's control
Girls sent to U.S. deprogramming centre
An Ontario judge has ordered that three girls be seized and sent to a
parental alienation centre for deprogramming after their mother waged an
unrelenting campaign to alienate them from their father.
The children - aged 14, 11 and 9 - were transported several days ago to
the U.S.-based centre. After being treated, they will live in the sole
custody of their father, a 56-year-old vascular surgeon.
"It is now time for his and the children's fates to be free from [the
mother's] control," Madam Justice Faye McWatt of the Ontario Superior Court
of Justice said in her ruling. "She has shown that she cannot be entrusted
The judge said the children had become so poisoned toward their father by
the mother's "emotional abuse" that they had lost the capacity to make
independent decisions about interacting with him.
Judge McWatt ordered the 42-year-old mother - a chiropodist identified only
as K.D. - to turn over all the children's clothing, passports and possessions.
K.D. was also ordered not to harass the children or go within 300 metres of
The judge also gave the father, A.L., the power to confiscate the children's
cellphones, pagers, computers and BlackBerrys to prevent their mother from
"Hopefully, this decision will send a message to other parents of like mind
that, if they alienate children, there is a huge price that will be paid at the
end of it all," the father's lawyer, Harold Niman, said in an interview last
"This order was child focused and designed very sensitively to ensure that
children emerge from this process as healthy children," Mr. Niman said. "My
client is a very decent guy who tried resolutely, under very difficult
circumstances, to have a relationship with his children. Here, the system
Soon after the couple met in 1993, K.D. became pregnant. K.D attempted to
keep A.L. from seeing his first daughter, but nonetheless eventually agreed to
The relationship became more dysfunctional. K.D. closely regulated her
husband's interactions with his child and accused him of sexually abusing the
child. Judge McWatt said K.D. appeared to be dominated by her mother, a
vindictive woman who had regularly beat her children when they were young.
K.D. and A.L. soon split up, but had two more children during brief periods
Judge McWatt found that K.D. - whom the judge described as immature, evasive
and completely lacking in credibility - on several occasions precipitated
physical confrontations with her husband and berated him in front of the
K.D. also refused repeatedly to comply with court orders granting A.L.
visitation rights, and invented excuses to thwart them.
Judge McWatt said a psychologist who assessed the family noted that K.D. was
obsessive about observing the children when they were with their father,
retained an unreasoning belief that he would harm them, and "overprotected the
three children to the point of infantilizing all of them.
"Eventually, he was not allowed to see or speak to the children - but was
left shouting good night to them through a door of K.D.'s home," Judge McWatt
added. "Most times, he was not aware whether they were in the house. He did this
for up to two years during this period."
The degenerative series of events ended in the children withdrawing from
their father and refusing to see him.
Commentary by the Ottawa Mens Centre
(Notice how the Globe did not allow any comments on this story?)
Here is our commentary anway.
Ottawa Mens Centre.com, from Ottawa Capital of Male Gender Apartheid,
Canada wrote: Ask any father who has been to an Ontario Family Court
and he will tell you that he felt like he was lined up against the wall and led
to the gallows where he was tarred in hatred oozing out of the court room walls.
Most of our judges are not the rare gems, the saints like Justice Fay McWatt, a
female judge too. Wonder how she slipped past the likes of Copps who had her
feminist buddies with little legal experience by a strong feminist agenda
appointed to the bench.
Justice Faye McWatt is a rare gem like some of the other saints who make up a
small minority of the Ontario Judiciary. Every day, thousands of children have
their relationship with their father terminated by a dead beat judge. This case
will probably be successfully appealed to the Ontario Court of Appeal, not
because of any "error in law" but because the Court of Appeal historically is
the most anti male court in Canada. One female judge has the record of making
the most anti male decisions of any judge, very rarely will you see any male in
a family matter be successful and that court also has a repulsion for any self
represented litigant who in their eyes is vermin depriving the legal profession
of income. Remember, most alienation can be blamed directly on judge who makes a
"Power decision" or a "Sheffield decision" that effectively puts a man in jail
indefinitely for simply asking for access. Check out the roscoe research at
www.ottawamenscentre.com / rosce.
Ontario's economy will further gurgle
down the drain while billions are wasted by the Ontario Superior Court Family
Division and the Court of Appeal of Ontario engaged in a "war against men". So
rare is it that a judge makes any objective decision, that it makes headlines.
Why is it that the K.D. decision makes headlines? This should be happening every
day but the reverse happens. We also have a vile underbelly of the Judiciary who
make draconian orders that make even feminists cringe. For example, Justice
Denis Power and Justice Alan Sheffield suffer from a hatred not only towards men
but self represented litigants and think nothing of ending a child's
relationship with their father to satisfy a mentally ill violent woman hell bent
on classic examples of "Parental Alienation Syndrome". PAS is regarded in
Ontario Courts as a taboo dirty word, Fathers are routinely hit with "Power
Orders or Sheffield Orders" simply because a feminist lawyer personally
fabricates evidence. Take lawyer Lesley Kendall of the Kingston Law Firm
Cunningham Swan who fails to deny in court that she personally fabricated
evidence and knowingly provided false evidence to the court. Ontario needs to
add up the cost of crime, crime committed by feminist lawyers who alienate
children from deserving fathers. www.OttawaMensCentre.com