‘Then the crying stopped’: Man walks into pond with 3-month-old, drowning him as others watch


By Travis M. Andrews

August 2, 2016

Like James Stewart in Hitchcock’s “Rear Window,” Robert Amstadt watched the atrocity from his Milwaukee apartment in horror.

It was “the most evil thing I’ve ever seen,” he later told the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel.

Amstadt had heard the telltale signs of a domestic disturbance — voices rising in heated, passionate argument — around 8:45 p.m. Saturday night. It was like any other fight between lovers, until he heard a woman scream, “Give me back my baby.”

Curious, he rushed to the window only to find his view obscured by a patch of trees lining the large pond that residents of both complexes enjoyed. Before Amstadt turned away, a man carrying an infant walked out from between the trees and continued down an asphalt path toward the water.

A cluster of people followed the man in a bewildering parade, yelling, “Don’t go in the water.”

“It was a hornet’s nest of people moving around … crying and screaming,” Amstadt told the Journal Sentinel.

Still, he didn’t call the police — he just watched until something strange happened.

One of the crowd members stepped forward and grabbed the bawling baby’s arm. The man with the infant yanked it back and began bee-lining directly to the pond. Amstadt called 911.

The man holding the baby reached the water’s edge while Amstadt was on the phone.

“He just walked into the water with the baby,” Amstadt told the emergency dispatcher.


The 6-foot-tall, 200-pound man “didn’t try to hold the baby up” but kept it firmly underwater as the water rose to his chest.

“That baby cried all the way out into the water,” Amstadt said. “Then the crying stopped.”



It might have seemed almost like a baptism if the crowd members hadn’t been screaming, “He’s drowning the baby.”

With the baby firmly underwater and out of sight, someone finally sprang into action.

Joey Griffin, a member of the throng of onlookers, splashed into the water.

“Without thinking — I just ran into the water,” Griffin told WITI. “I yelled at him, ‘Where’s the baby? Where’s the baby?’ ”

He noticed its tiny, limp body floating some feet from the man.



“I grabbed it. I tried to swim away with it,” Griffin said. “He lunged at me and took the baby again and swam further, deeper.”

By the time police and the Milwaukee Fire Department arrived at the pond, the man was no longer holding him. Some of the responders dove into the water, and found the baby’s body. Others arrested the man, who was still standing in the water.

Firefighters attempted to revive the child to no avail. He was pronounced dead at the scene.

The baby’s name was Sean A. Flowers III.

He was born on April 18.

He died on July 30.

The man they arrested was Sean A. Flowers Jr., the baby’s father, police announced Monday. Police say he drowned the baby after getting in a fight with the child’s mother, according to WISN.

Flowers Jr. is being held on a $150,000 bail at the Milwaukee County Jail, according to the jail’s website. The Journal Sentinel reported, “Police have referred the case to prosecutors, who are expected to consider possible homicide charges this week.”

“We all lost. We all lost this one,” Griffin said. “No matter what you do, no matter how hard you try, sometimes you just lose. No matter how hard you try. You just wish you could’ve did more.”

Neighbors are still in shock. Some have made a small memorial for the child, which includes balloons and stuffed animals laid gingerly at the water’s edge.

“It made me sad, it made me cry, that a man would actually do that to his own child, his own baby,” Keira Hulbert, a neighbor, told WTMJ.

This was not Flowers’s first run-in with the law.

In 2012, Flowers and the boy’s mother, 26, who remains unnamed, pleaded guilty to misdemeanor theft for stealing the purse of a Marquette University student. Flowers violated the probation he received and ended up serving prison time, according to court records obtained by the Journal Sentinel.

Then, the woman became pregnant with the couple’s first child — a girl. She wrote to the court, requesting an early release for Flowers so he could be present for the child’s birth in August 2014.


It’s unclear if he received the early release, but he did dispute his paternity of his daughter until DNA testing showed that he was the biological father. At a hearing in February 2015, he conceded, and he and the woman were granted joint custody.

The judge ordered Flowers to pay $20 weekly child support.

Several months later, the woman filed for a restraining order against Flowers after alleging he kicked down her door and threatened her and had previously punched her repeatedly.

After all of that, Flowers wrote to a judge asking for his criminal record to be expunged, citing his difficulty finding work and providing for his family, but he was denied.

Flowers was recently ordered to pay a higher child support — $62.50 per week — which was set to begin on Monday.




Commentary by the Ottawa Mens Centre

This is the kind of story that asks more questions than provides answers.

Courts in Canada and the USA habitually order child support in excess of

the statutory amount and is often determined by what sounds like the mother

"should receive" rather than what is reasonable.

It's that unreasonable or abuse of judicial discretion that causes exacerbation of underlying

mental health problems that can trigger a normally controlled non-violent psychopath

into death and destruction.


This story talks about not being his first run in with the law.

A young uneducated black man in the United States or Canada has a pretty high

probability of having a "run in with the law" that could well be entirely fabricated.


Those fabricated convictions destroy lives and often exacerbate or create mental health

problems that lead to real crimes and endless lives of crime.


It's a reminder of why Driving While Black or the profiling of blacks

or gender profiling of males, can result in death and destruction, that is

all too often caused by those with a duty to serve and protect.


Ottawa Mens Centre